So many truths to unpack here! Much of what you say about meeting people is true whether one is gay or straight… for introverts. I wouldn’t mind a relationship, but there’s no way I’m putting myself out there. After the shock of the Cowboy’s death wore off and people told me I should get back out there, my response was always the same. “If I’m to be in another relationship, the perfect person will have to knock on my door, cause there’s no way I’m looking!”

I’m far too anxious about how I look, am I talking too much, swearing too much… blah, blah, blah. But, I’m old and you’re young and adorable. Get your ass out there, right now, young man!

(Just kidding, all this to say, minus the haters, I feel your pain.)

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