One of my best friends recently told me about a similar experience. Sadly, I don't think it was a rare occurrence for young, gay men. Of course, it also happens with women, but seems as though young men exploring sexuality have this experience far too often.
Glad that you're in a good place, and that you shared. I think it's important for people to hear our experiences. It makes them not feel so alone.
Thanks for this wonderful article, and for choosing to be vulnerable.