I love your gray!! I did my bottom cabinets a matte black, tuff finish and my top cabinets remained white. My top ones are built-ins and very old. I should probably have them removed and repainted, but... ugh!

See! I learn from your stories! I had no idea about cabinets and dementia. I labeled my dresser drawers a few years ago. I have ADHD and read a book about how much better people with ADHD do when things are labeled... it's true.