Fucking brilliant!!! Bravo! I imagine it's a little harder to do when the kiddos are young. I've always had a tough love philosophy and it served my son quite well. He learned to cool and do laundry around ten years old. My kids had to cook dinner one night a week. Believe me it was an adventure!

But, it's our job as parents to raise adults. It sounds like that's exactly your plan. Fucking brilliant!!